Sunday, April 6, 2014

Sunday Question

1 Nephi 3:29

Why do ye smite your younger brother with a rod?


Laman and Lemuel were angry, hearts were turned from the Lord, they were sinning in their hearts. This distance caused them to lose sight of their identity and of their relationship and duty to their brother. They couldn't see the ways of the Lord. They couldn't see the eternal truth. They focused on a narrow bias view of the now. Their sins kept them from being rulers (do not my sins keep me enslaved to fear doubt).
I currently have a roommate that gets under my skin, even when he is doing nothing wrong or intentionally attempting to annoy. How can I see him how the Father sees him? How can i focus on his positive traits?

Here is a List of His Positive Qualities
-fun
-spontaneous
-helpful
-generous
-good father
-great knowledge of the scriptures
-friendly
-talented
-active
-tender heart

I will try to focus more on these traits, build them up. I will not be fault finding, critical, or abusive with the stinging rod of hurtful words.
I need to learn to love easier.



5 Life Regrets

We have all seen these regrets listed before. You only get one take at life. I have been intrigued by these regrets for a while now. As you have seen before I love questions and here are a few questions I am asking myself?

How do we avoid the pull of our consumer driven economy and not fall victim to these 5 Most Common Regrets?

What habits can I form that would limit these regrets?

1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

Know what I want?! 
Plan out how to get it. 
Be friends with different types of people. 

2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.

Plan Fun Things Every Week.
Choose a person I like to spend time with
Set goals for the day track progress clear beginning and ending


3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.

Practice open communication
Ask others how they are feeling
Journal
Read Communication

4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.

Send one email a week
One call a week
One trip with the Gang a Year.
-Get in the details of their lives.

Pick 5 Close People
    Tyler Hall
   Justin Bergener
   Ace Sorenson
  Rob Wick
  

5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.

Mediate
Practice Gratitude 
Be Myself
Read More
Create
Be Repentant
Be Holy 


This is a work in progress. I will be working on this. I will do a weekly audit. 

https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/10IDdOigQWbI1VyUZ9vO-wv3XBBjljzWLsFrLfdYnNMk/edit?usp=sharing